Sister love.
Saturday, August 31, 2013
In gratitude to Tom O'Brien
Dear Tom,
Thank you for being my teacher. Actually, I think of you as one of my mothers. You nourished me, daily feedings that helped me discover how a mind learns and grows. You introduced me to Piaget and helped me weave a beautiful tapestry of understanding and knowledge about thinking and learning.
A box of graham crackers was a math lesson and so was a game of find the diamond. I loved later being able to work with you. Together we inspired kids to use their logical intelligence. Under your leadership, I was able to get kids involved in mathematical arguments. You taught me about co-teaching and how to share what I was learning.
Thank you for believing in me, providing support that helped me build confidence, get published, and have the knowledge I needed to convincely share a perspective that would create a better learning environment for kids.
And thank you for asking me to speak at your memorial service. It was hard to keep from crying. You are forever in my heart and in my highest esteem. I hope that your hands are still helping others learn through my hands.
Yours,
Chris
Thursday, August 29, 2013
August 28
On a hot summer night
turn on the house fan
sleep naked
sleep alone
windows open wide
that way
you can
smell the water in the air
hear the cicadas chirping in the night
the rhythm of their songs
and fall asleep with a
smile.
Monday, August 19, 2013
Wednesday, August 14, 2013
a poem about today
when I got to come
to my home and
eat a dinner of
fried eggplant, onion, and feta
on a sandwich
sitting on the front porch,
plate on top of old bird poop
mostly washed off by rain
hearing the sound
of a pileated woodpecker
rhythmically beating,
then
baking exactly six
chocolate chip cookies
while enjoying fresh coffee
from my new french press,
alone
but not alone
knowing
there is
always enough love
Tuesday, June 11, 2013
Tuesday, May 21, 2013
The good news is..
Calm waters reflecting the
beauty all around
Friends who are willing to save other
friends from squishy bugs
Bra hikes when the temperature
reaches 90 degrees
Shopping adventures at Dickey
Bub
Delicious food prepared by
loving hands
Sleeping with amazing women
Wonderful friends who so freely
give of themselves
Sharing our lives
Never too old for a slumber party |
Thursday, April 25, 2013
Remembering and still building
I started this blog because I wanted to have a way to stay
connected to my daughters. We went on
vacation together and made entries as part of that trip. When we came home I let this blog sit and now
it might be time to use it again. I am
still trying to build bridges, but it gets harder.
I remember being a teenager and the point at which I started
pushing my own mother away. I somehow
lost respect for who she was. As I look
back I think I never really knew who she was, what her dreams were, or what she
felt or thought. What mattered most to
her was her family. I know that for
sure. She spent her entire adult life
taking care of those she loved. She was
very practical.
Now I am entering that space that she took up. I am the mother that my daughters are pushing
away. I wish I could tell her how hard I
know that must have been to be the parent when I was doing that. And I wish I could ask her for advice on how
to make it through this stage. She did
it so well. This week was the
anniversary of her passing. I am
remembering her as my mom and wondering who she was as a person when she was
not my mom. And I am determined to let
my daughters know who I am.
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