These are Isabella’s dresses.
I have so many memories of her. I loved
her dearly and spent many days listening. When she was home bound in her
nineties at her daughter’s house, we would spend Saturday afternoons
together. She would ask me to bring her a white castle hamburger and
fries along with a beer and then I would get to listen to her stories.
But this is about the dresses. When
I was in college, she started giving me her old dresses. They were from
the 30’s and 40’s and I loved them. I wore them everywhere even during my
first teaching year. I think they helped get me in a contract non-renewal
situation. I was told I did not dress properly. Who knew that your
grandmother’s dresses made you look like a hippie.
The ones I wore in college, I wore out.
And these are the dresses that are left. The yellow dress was worn at my
parents wedding in 1951. I wore it at their 40th wedding anniversary
gathering. The black dress was my official wedding and funeral dress for
a number of years. The light blue one became my summer wear everywhere
dress. I have outgrown them now, just as she had when she started
passing them on to me. And now it is time for me to send them on.